Im turning 16 and my dad said i could get a used car around 25,000 and the car i realy want is the BMW X3 but i think a more reasonble car is like the volvo XC90 but my mom has that car and i thought it would look bad haha. I just cant decide to get a car like toyota 4runner or volvo instead of the bmw and i try my best not to be flashy or look bratty!
please help but try not to be to harsh...
i meant 25,000$ not miles
i meant 25,000$ not miles

When you say 25000, do you mean dollars or miles. cos i am wondering why would someone get a used car for $25000.
From the options you have mentioned it seems your choice tends towards the flashy cars so you may get another brand and not be happy with what you have.
So look at what you really can afford and at the same time you will be happy with. If your parents do not object, then go for it and be safe.